You and your Twin Flame were created to be perfect partners in every way. Twin Flame is meant to be your ultimate teacher, friend, partner, and lover – but what happens when your Twin Flame wants to be just friends? Or what happens when you only see your Twin Flame as a friend – can you really transcend the “friendzone”?

The short answer is yes. It’s definitely possible to deepen your relationship with your Twin Flame beyond that of just friends.

Your relationship with your Twin Flame is a direct reflection of your relationship with yourself. While it’s true that your inner reality creates your outer reality, Twin Flames are especially close because they were created as One by the Divine. Your Twin Flame is your Divine Mirror, reflecting your consciousness, your choices, and your feelings about yourself back to you. Therefore, when you are stuck in the friendzone with your Twin Flame, or experiencing intimacy blocks, it’s a direct reflection of a place within you where you are experiencing a lack of connection or intimacy with yourself.

There’s no need to pressure yourself or your Twin Flame into a deeper relationship than either of you are ready for. In fact, as you may already know, that rarely generates the real results you’re looking for. The way to transcend this block within your Union is to heal it within yourself. Developing deeper intimacy within yourself starts by choosing to feel your feelings. Your feelings point you toward what feels good within you, and what feels out of alignment. When you choose to fully feel your feelings, you can bring love to those places within you that feel unloved. The best and fastest way to do this is by using the Mirror Exercise, taught by Jeff and Shaleia. You can learn more about it in their book, “Twin Flames: Finding your Ultimate Lover.”

It’s important to remember that your Twin Flame is your partner in your spiritual ascension, first and foremost. Their primary role in your life is as your greatest teacher, mirroring your consciousness back to you, just by being themselves. When you choose to properly respect what your Twin Flame is showing you and heal it, you are properly honoring your relationship. It’s only when you properly honor your relationship that it has the space to blossom into something deeper.

It truly doesn’t matter how long it takes, or what obstacles present themselves along the way. You have the power to heal your Union, and it starts with how you relate to yourself. It’s safe to embrace romance, heal your intimacy blocks with compassion, and cultivate attraction from within. When you continue to choose Love on your journey, you will be able to manifest the Divine Romance you desire in your heart.